Is it a real "business" problem?

You have a business problem and cannot solve it over a longer period of time?

Let me tell you a secret:

Most of the time, it is not about the problem itself. 

You think it is about the problem, but it is not. 

Most problems don’t get solved or very slowly solved because it is a relationship problem. 

There is some form of mistrust or underlying conflict or opposing interests.

And that leads to destructive behavior, instead of getting to a solution quickly. 

Most people are unaware of the roots of their behavior. 

If you focus more on the feelings side connected to the problem and if you dare to be honest with yourself, you will get to the real issue. 

And sometimes it is even more about us than about others. Something we don’t feel comfortable with. Some internal trigger or pain getting between us and the solution.