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Give Back Time
There are a few corporate sayings that really trigger me. But there is one that—with online meetings all day, every day—has been used far too frequently in the recent past: "I’ll give you back ten minutes." "Lucky you, we finished early, so I'm giving you half an hour back." Really? You are giving me back time? I don’t think so. First of all, I realize it’s meant to be friendly. The intent is usually to make meeting participants feel good or relieved. So why does something ni
Agnes Mathes
6 days ago1 min read


Interconnection
When I go to a different country, I always feel it’s Agnes, the German, in a foreign country. Like now, I feel German in Waterford, Ireland. And while I truly enjoy the team and the West site and everything, I feel foreign in a way. Like a tourist going to a country and then returning home by leaving the country. Just now I realized that there can be a different perspective. By spending four days in Waterford, a small piece of me becomes Irish. I soak in the energy that is he
Agnes Mathes
Jul 251 min read


Don't let your own brain fool you!
I see it almost every day and at all hierarchical levels: Someone doesn't behave the way we want them to, and we instantly discredit the entire person. Sometimes openly and directly, sometimes secretly and in confidential conversations with HR. We fail to separate the two: that we are actually just dissatisfied with a specific behavior because it doesn't align with our own expectations or needs. I find myself wondering and reflecting on maturity and professionalism time
Agnes Mathes
Jul 232 min read


The High-Performer Dilemma: Why Your Brain Needs "Deload Phases" to Prevent Atrophy
We all know the phrase: "The brain is a muscle." But in the world of high performers, this metaphor is often dangerously misinterpreted. We believe we must keep this muscle under maximum tension 24/7 just to keep from falling behind. Modern neuroscience and psychology paint a completely different picture. True high performance does not come from permanent pressure; it comes from the art of precise periodization. Neuroplasticity: You Become What You Standardize Our brain posse
Agnes Mathes
Jul 163 min read


Stop Confusing Movement with Progress
Most people are already working at capacity. The problem isn’t a lack of effort. It’s a lack of focus. We’ve all seen it: A constant blur of movement. Back-to-back meetings. A dozen "top-priority" initiatives. Yet, despite the exhaustion, the needle barely moves on what truly matters. Activity is not achievement. When pressure increases, our instinct is to do more. But adding simultaneous tasks usually just means creating more noise. Real progress only happens when energy is
Agnes Mathes
Jun 251 min read


Driven by Restlessness
As leaders and builders, we are wired to fix things. Our minds constantly scan the environment, looking for the next flaw, the next upgrade, or the next problem to solve. This drive builds solid structures, creates growth, and moves teams forward. But it also comes with a hidden tax: a constant, subtle restlessness. You can look at your organization, your team, or even your own life and realize that on paper, everything is remarkably fine. You have the foundation, the skills,
Agnes Mathes
Jun 41 min read


Success Will Never Quiet Your Mind
In my professional journey, I have often observed a recurring pattern—both in my environment and, if I am completely honest, within myself: the relentless chase after the next milestone, the next project completion, or the next professional "summit." It is a very human trap to think, "Once I reach that goal, I will finally catch my breath. I will finally find peace." But there is a psychological truth that many of us learn the hard way: External achievements rarely change our
Agnes Mathes
May 291 min read


How to Deal with Colleagues You Cannot Stand
One of the challenges I encounter in my daily HR environment and as a leader is that team conflicts are inevitable. Employees—no matter the hierarchy—have a tendency to complain about others. Not necessarily only about individuals, but also about departments, organizational structures, or even the weather. There is always something external happening that negatively influences their mood and ability to work. (I am aware that this might not be true for all cultures. My environ
Agnes Mathes
May 152 min read


No Drama, Please: Stop the Loop
When you find yourself getting angry at someone or frustrated by a situation, ask yourself: "Is my response—and the time I’m investing in it—really worth my energy?" You may have experienced something genuinely hurtful or frustrating. It is natural to feel that sting; it certainly caused you pain. However, your response and the time you spend dwelling on that person or topic in your mind will define how much value and attention you choose to give it. Let it pass. Choose to mi
Agnes Mathes
May 81 min read


Mentorship: A Long-Term Partnership for Growth
While short-term mentorship can be effective, I prefer to view it as the foundation for a long-term relationship. When a mentor and mentee connect, they build a trusting bond that can last for years—sometimes even a lifetime. I know many senior executives who still speak highly of the mentors who guided them early in their careers and helped shape their direction. How to be a successful mentor: Here are a few principles that define my approach to mentoring: Mutual Learning: I
Agnes Mathes
May 12 min read


The Competence Trap: Why "Winging It" is Killing Your Reputation
One key part of success is preparation. Some people believe they are experienced enough to „just wing it,“ jumping into meetings with self-confident improvisation. And while they might not do a bad job—relying on years of experience—the result is often just an average performance. It is easy to spot someone who is staying in their comfort zone, simply doing "just enough" to get by. Truly senior players, despite their vast experience, take the time to prepare and refine what t
Agnes Mathes
Apr 172 min read


The Most Expensive Mistake in Relationships and Leadership: Talking About Instead of With
It is easy to talk about people. It is comfortable to talk about problems. It feels like instant relief; you might even think that by "talking it out," the issue is resolved. However, moving from "talking about" to "talking with " is the real key to success. Only this step transforms the illusion of a solution into real problem-solving. Addressing a person directly and discussing the problem you see sets the stage for actual change. By expressing yourself, one of two things
Agnes Mathes
Apr 101 min read


Working Hard Won't Take You to the Next Level
The other day, I saw this slogan: „Work hard, stay humble, enjoy good coffee!“ It’s a nice marketing line, and they do serve great coffee. But it made me stop and wonder: Do I actually identify with this? Coincidentally, a day later, I heard someone claim that "working hard" is the only guarantee of success. Once again, I found myself reflecting on whether that had been true for me. I remembered how my parents—and even my grandmother—constantly urged me to work hard. “Be a go
Agnes Mathes
Apr 23 min read


Our lives in a birdcage
Have you ever visited the world’s largest prison? When people are asked about freedom and whether they consider themselves free, the answers vary wildly. Many feel there are borders or limitations to their liberty. Here is what those limitations often look like: Spatial Freedom : Some cannot leave their country or a specific region. Perhaps their nationality prevents them from visiting a place they dream of seeing. They wish to travel, but they cannot. Professional Freedo
Agnes Mathes
Mar 203 min read


The unexpected compliment behind a frustrating request
A colleague of mine recently asked me for advice and feedback on a specific situation. I agreed to meet with him for an open conversation online. We talked, and I openly shared all my thoughts with him. He listened and commented. Then, after about 20 minutes, something unexpected happened. He asked me if I could send him a summary of my feedback by email. What?! Seriously? Man, you asked for my help. I took the time to talk everything through, and instead of taking notes your
Agnes Mathes
Mar 62 min read


The scuba diver and the farmer: why cross-departmental thinking wins
"Creativity is the focused combination of unlikely things. Your mind locks onto a certain element and then searches widely for something unexpected that fits with it. What can scuba diving teach you about agriculture? What can trees teach you about public speaking? There is always some connective tissue between disciplines. If you wish to be more creative, look for the connections between two previously unconnected things." (James Clear) This applies just as much in a busin
Agnes Mathes
Feb 141 min read


Why training is not learning
Is this a harsh truth or just an exaggeration? Many supervisors fool themselves when they send their employees to trainings and believe that is enough. They think that simply selecting a course completes their leadership duty. Moreover, I have met many employees who are convinced that attending around two external trainings per year is—or should be—the standard. Regardless of the actual need: two trainings. And if Colleague X got two, I should also have the right to enjoy
Agnes Mathes
Jan 303 min read


A perspective on potential
"People usually judge you based on where you are at currently, not what you could become eventually. Don’t let one comment stop you from trying. File it away or use it as fuel. Focus on getting better. Someone else’s analysis of your current position doesn’t tell you anything about your current potential." I love this quote by James Clear (taken from his inspirational newsletter). It is so relevant for leadership or when hiring someone. We often get fooled by looking at the c
Agnes Mathes
Jan 152 min read


The anti-vision plan for 2026
With the new year underway, many people are taking time to set objectives. Others are reflecting on whether their personal vision is still accurate and helps them steer in the right direction. I invite you to step back and pause for a moment. Let’s focus on what will be important and meaningful for you when 2026 is over. Which of your objectives will have helped you choose the right path? You don’t know? Me neither. Neither for you, nor for me. So, how can we make t
Agnes Mathes
Jan 82 min read


You know what you need
For 2026, I wish for you to be content. Have the trust to listen to yourself. Everything you need to know is already within you. In an age of AI and daily information overload, I wish for you to recognize and value your intuition. It takes patience to trust that life will bring the right information to you at the right time. It takes courage to not fill your mind with every available detail, but to select only what serves you in the present moment. It takes reflecti
Agnes Mathes
Jan 11 min read
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